Pre Marital Financial Planning
Getting married? Let’s talk money.
Before you blend your life with someone else’s, it’s wise to understand what that means financially.
Whether you're bringing significant assets into the relationship or just starting to build wealth, understanding how marriage impacts your money is one of the smartest steps you can take.
This isn’t about distrust. It’s about education, clarity, and setting a strong foundation.
Marrying Your Finances
Marriage changes your legal and financial world more than most people realize. Many couples are surprised to learn:
- Assets you owned before marriage may become partially marital. If you stop contributing to a pre-marital investment account but the account grows during marriage, that gain could be considered marital property.
- Income earned during the marriage is generally considered marital, regardless of whose name is on the paycheck or account.
- Using separate funds for joint purposes can unintentionally "commingle" assets, making it hard to prove what was yours originally.
- Debt is shared more than you think. Even if one partner takes out a loan, it could become a shared responsibility depending on your state and how the debt was used.
Things to Consider Before Saying “I Do”
- Do you have savings, investments, or retirement accounts built before the relationship?
- Do you own a home or business?
- Do you expect to receive an inheritance?
- Is one of you carrying more debt?
- Are you planning to pause or slow your career (e.g., for children or relocation)?
- Will you file joint or separate taxes?
- Will you share all accounts or keep some separate?
- Are family members helping with wedding expenses or a down payment?
- Are you thinking of starting a business, going back to school, or moving for one partner’s job?
Understanding a Prenuptial Agreement
A prenup (prenuptial agreement) is a legal document that outlines how assets, debts, and financial matters will be handled in the event of divorce or death. It’s not just for the ultra-wealthy or celebrities. It's a financial planning tool that offers:
- Clarity on what remains separate vs. marital
- Guidelines for managing debt
- Provisions for spousal support or lack thereof
- Protection for family assets, inheritances, or businesses
- Reduced legal costs if separation does happen
Even if you don’t want a prenup, understanding how your state treats assets and income in marriage can help you plan wisely.